lokariototal
Don Juan
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What do you think?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Players: Hated or Loved by Women?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
eaglez1177
Master Don Juan
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^Exactly
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
They love the ride, but hate the sudden stop.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ilovewoman
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Well it depends on their period I mean it is close to their period they wan't a man man with psycotic trails and players often play *****y
and the rest of the time
family man
and the rest of the time
family man
Badmannaz
Master Don Juan
a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....
swift..slick...and smooth...
thats a true player..period
swift..slick...and smooth...
thats a true player..period
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unbridled_Phoenix
Master Don Juan
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The answer is both, as Cinamon alluded.
Remember, the ability to generate love or hate in women is a plus in your book.
AFCs generate indifference, game over.
Remember, the ability to generate love or hate in women is a plus in your book.
AFCs generate indifference, game over.