"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Players: Hated or Loved by Women?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scion

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they want to hate them but they are ultimately drawn to them
 

eaglez1177

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^Exactly
 

DJDanny

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I think the very definition of being a player answers that question, you're not a real player if women aren't drawn to you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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dumbest question ever.
 

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Well it depends on their period I mean it is close to their period they wan't a man man with psycotic trails and players often play *****y

and the rest of the time

family man :p
 

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Loved by women who think they can tame them, hated by women who fall in love with him.
 

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a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
 

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Badmannaz said:
a TRUE TRUE PLAYER is not HATED...RATHER he is Admired....and goes UNKNOWN...and he always leaves his women in good graces...and wanting more....

swift..slick...and smooth...

thats a true player..period
sure, that would be a true player, a master of the player game. But even this guy would have women that hate him, you can't please everyone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The answer is both, as Cinamon alluded.

Remember, the ability to generate love or hate in women is a plus in your book.

AFCs generate indifference, game over.
 
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