Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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player v. player, thanks SS

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dj_china

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HB8 has rich parents. she races in China (think Tokyo Drift, but less hardcore). and she parties. a lot
classic female player

today she says to me, after passionately making out in a cafe
"I'm a player, and I think I'm going to lose this game..."

I just wanted to thank SS for everything I've learned here. those words are a huge confidence booster

and I wanted to single out Jophil and Warrior because I've learned the most from them. thanks guys. and keep up the good advice everyone
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Piano Master

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She's trapping you, bro. She's trying to sucker you into thinking she's falling for you so you lower your guard. She'll be over you once you stop playin' da game!
 
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girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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Semtex said:
girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
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Competitive weightlifters don't exercise/practice with what they think they can handle, they push the edge.

They load them down with just a little more weight than they think they can handle.

No matter what happens he'll have learned much more than if he just picked up an easy lay.

He wants a challenge, she wants a challenge, it's all good!
 
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