"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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player v. player, thanks SS

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dj_china

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HB8 has rich parents. she races in China (think Tokyo Drift, but less hardcore). and she parties. a lot
classic female player

today she says to me, after passionately making out in a cafe
"I'm a player, and I think I'm going to lose this game..."

I just wanted to thank SS for everything I've learned here. those words are a huge confidence booster

and I wanted to single out Jophil and Warrior because I've learned the most from them. thanks guys. and keep up the good advice everyone
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Piano Master

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She's trapping you, bro. She's trying to sucker you into thinking she's falling for you so you lower your guard. She'll be over you once you stop playin' da game!
 
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girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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Semtex said:
girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
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Competitive weightlifters don't exercise/practice with what they think they can handle, they push the edge.

They load them down with just a little more weight than they think they can handle.

No matter what happens he'll have learned much more than if he just picked up an easy lay.

He wants a challenge, she wants a challenge, it's all good!
 
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