"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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player v. player, thanks SS

dj_china

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HB8 has rich parents. she races in China (think Tokyo Drift, but less hardcore). and she parties. a lot
classic female player

today she says to me, after passionately making out in a cafe
"I'm a player, and I think I'm going to lose this game..."

I just wanted to thank SS for everything I've learned here. those words are a huge confidence booster

and I wanted to single out Jophil and Warrior because I've learned the most from them. thanks guys. and keep up the good advice everyone
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She's trapping you, bro. She's trying to sucker you into thinking she's falling for you so you lower your guard. She'll be over you once you stop playin' da game!
 

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girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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Semtex said:
girl racers are not sexy at all... i'd rather be the adrenaline junkie in a relationship, not vice versa. Female players are also not sexy, unless you enjoy pitting your dj skills/experience against the female version's...it would be too much mind games, and like the piano master mentioned, you'll be given shit tests up the ying-yang. If thats your thing, well good luck
Competitive weightlifters don't exercise/practice with what they think they can handle, they push the edge.

They load them down with just a little more weight than they think they can handle.

No matter what happens he'll have learned much more than if he just picked up an easy lay.

He wants a challenge, she wants a challenge, it's all good!
 
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