"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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play it cool or advance?

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Met a girl last week at a bar, made out and i got her phone number. Texted her and she texted me back, asked her out she said she couldnt but when i didnt respond to that txt she texted me again.

Then it stopped, but I txted her again last friday, just casual convo. So what do i do now? Should i play it cool and wait? Will probably see her in the weekend at the bar cause she goes out a lot...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop the texting and make a date to meet her and go out. Otherwise just see her at the bar. No need for extensive texting if you're not going to make a move.
 
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What did she say when she texted you after you didn't respond to her "I can't" message?

Vacuum/silence can work to your advantage. Sometimes a girl will just send another message to make sure she still "has you" type thing. Finding that with one girl I am interacting with now.

I agree with the other poster. Don't bother texting back and forth. Just make arrangements for a date. Instead of a specific day you could say "what day works for you this week" or something to that effect and go from there.
 
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What I'm finding is that is you do not contact her and she's interested, she will contact you. It may take a week or two. But she will call. If she's not interested, she won't. Do not chase. If you see her in person make no mention of the texts just pick up where you left off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks guys, I'll play it cool and wait. Will hopefully see her irl soon where i can then do my thing. Once met a girl, texted her and got no response, 4 weeks later on a late friday night she texts me asking if i want to ''watch a movie'' with her, and you all know what happened afterwards...
 
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