play it cool or advance?

[sbgm]

Met a girl last week at a bar, made out and i got her phone number. Texted her and she texted me back, asked her out she said she couldnt but when i didnt respond to that txt she texted me again.

Then it stopped, but I txted her again last friday, just casual convo. So what do i do now? Should i play it cool and wait? Will probably see her in the weekend at the bar cause she goes out a lot...

 

[VladPatton]

Stop the texting and make a date to meet her and go out. Otherwise just see her at the bar. No need for extensive texting if you're not going to make a move.

 

[altec]

What did she say when she texted you after you didn't respond to her "I can't" message?

Vacuum/silence can work to your advantage. Sometimes a girl will just send another message to make sure she still "has you" type thing. Finding that with one girl I am interacting with now.

I agree with the other poster. Don't bother texting back and forth. Just make arrangements for a date. Instead of a specific day you could say "what day works for you this week" or something to that effect and go from there.

 

[scottvfly]

ignore, if she wants you make her do the chasing,

 

[GS750]

What I'm finding is that is you do not contact her and she's interested, she will contact you. It may take a week or two. But she will call. If she's not interested, she won't. Do not chase. If you see her in person make no mention of the texts just pick up where you left off.

 

[sbgm]

Thanks guys, I'll play it cool and wait. Will hopefully see her irl soon where i can then do my thing. Once met a girl, texted her and got no response, 4 weeks later on a late friday night she texts me asking if i want to ''watch a movie'' with her, and you all know what happened afterwards...