"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plate sees me as her big brother.

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It means what she said, but she may crave that in a relationship. If the brother is a bit older it could mean she will resent you or it could mean that she's into it, just like girls have daddy issues there can be a longing to want the way her brother treated her, you have to dig more and read her body language to figure that out though. She could feel comfort in that, so it could be a good thing but you'll have to get her to talk about her brother to get the clues.
 

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"soooo...you like incest I take it?? How naughty..." Lmao...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't know, I have a preference for not giving these types of statements any response. I typically just look them in the face with no expression and go back to what I was doing without giving it another thought. It usually leaves them wondering what I'm thinking. If they probe, I just respond "That's interesting".

Don't spend your time worrying about what she meant. As long as she's being submissive, being respectful and caring to you, who cares if she thinks you act like her dog. She's probably just musing to herself and talking out loud and never gave it another thought after that.
 

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
 

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If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
 

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This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
Yeah, i fcked her once but I have not established any exclusivity to her and she knows that i spin many other plates.
Edit:this just came in my mind right now. She had complains about me treating girls as objects since i was spinning other plates. I loled and said its not my fault if they want to be treated like that. She seemed to agree but idk.
In that date the sexual tension was very high ,extensive eye contact, kino , played a bit with her legs( she's very fit but not skinny fit but curvy fit) .
I met her when i was going to do a job but i had some time to spare and we went for a coffee.

If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
I agree. I started with NC at first because she lacked respect towards me( first date flake) . After some time I noticed that she had more interest towards me ( kino initiation and stuff) but I kept my cool. I'm always suspicious of her moves but I don't give an absolute fck about her .

I can say after the first flake i used every counter measure the forums suggest and till now it works like charm.
 
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There's no problem at all here...

Women love differently than men.....there's has to be admiration and respect.
That is to say to love you she must admire and respect you.

she's demonstrating her admiration and respect with that statement. What you need right
now is to go up one level until she's calling you daddy ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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