"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Plate sees me as her big brother.

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It means what she said, but she may crave that in a relationship. If the brother is a bit older it could mean she will resent you or it could mean that she's into it, just like girls have daddy issues there can be a longing to want the way her brother treated her, you have to dig more and read her body language to figure that out though. She could feel comfort in that, so it could be a good thing but you'll have to get her to talk about her brother to get the clues.
 

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"soooo...you like incest I take it?? How naughty..." Lmao...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know, I have a preference for not giving these types of statements any response. I typically just look them in the face with no expression and go back to what I was doing without giving it another thought. It usually leaves them wondering what I'm thinking. If they probe, I just respond "That's interesting".

Don't spend your time worrying about what she meant. As long as she's being submissive, being respectful and caring to you, who cares if she thinks you act like her dog. She's probably just musing to herself and talking out loud and never gave it another thought after that.
 

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
 

zekko

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If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
 

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This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
Yeah, i fcked her once but I have not established any exclusivity to her and she knows that i spin many other plates.
Edit:this just came in my mind right now. She had complains about me treating girls as objects since i was spinning other plates. I loled and said its not my fault if they want to be treated like that. She seemed to agree but idk.
In that date the sexual tension was very high ,extensive eye contact, kino , played a bit with her legs( she's very fit but not skinny fit but curvy fit) .
I met her when i was going to do a job but i had some time to spare and we went for a coffee.

If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
I agree. I started with NC at first because she lacked respect towards me( first date flake) . After some time I noticed that she had more interest towards me ( kino initiation and stuff) but I kept my cool. I'm always suspicious of her moves but I don't give an absolute fck about her .

I can say after the first flake i used every counter measure the forums suggest and till now it works like charm.
 
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There's no problem at all here...

Women love differently than men.....there's has to be admiration and respect.
That is to say to love you she must admire and respect you.

she's demonstrating her admiration and respect with that statement. What you need right
now is to go up one level until she's calling you daddy ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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