"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plate sees me as her big brother.

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It means what she said, but she may crave that in a relationship. If the brother is a bit older it could mean she will resent you or it could mean that she's into it, just like girls have daddy issues there can be a longing to want the way her brother treated her, you have to dig more and read her body language to figure that out though. She could feel comfort in that, so it could be a good thing but you'll have to get her to talk about her brother to get the clues.
 

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"soooo...you like incest I take it?? How naughty..." Lmao...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't know, I have a preference for not giving these types of statements any response. I typically just look them in the face with no expression and go back to what I was doing without giving it another thought. It usually leaves them wondering what I'm thinking. If they probe, I just respond "That's interesting".

Don't spend your time worrying about what she meant. As long as she's being submissive, being respectful and caring to you, who cares if she thinks you act like her dog. She's probably just musing to herself and talking out loud and never gave it another thought after that.
 

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Plate says to me .

her : you are exactly like my big brother
Me: what do you mean?
Her : my brother is very strict with me and you are the same.

After that i thought that she would throw me some emotional shyt and didn't wanted to have any connection with so i just changed the topic.
What does she mean?
This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
 

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If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
 

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This sounds like a statement made by one of those idiot f*cks who doesn't know what a plate is, so good ole Rex has to ask. Are you f*cking this girl?
Yeah, i fcked her once but I have not established any exclusivity to her and she knows that i spin many other plates.
Edit:this just came in my mind right now. She had complains about me treating girls as objects since i was spinning other plates. I loled and said its not my fault if they want to be treated like that. She seemed to agree but idk.
In that date the sexual tension was very high ,extensive eye contact, kino , played a bit with her legs( she's very fit but not skinny fit but curvy fit) .
I met her when i was going to do a job but i had some time to spare and we went for a coffee.

If you treat her like your bratty little sister, as many recommend, wouldn't it logically follow that she would see you as an older brother?
I agree. I started with NC at first because she lacked respect towards me( first date flake) . After some time I noticed that she had more interest towards me ( kino initiation and stuff) but I kept my cool. I'm always suspicious of her moves but I don't give an absolute fck about her .

I can say after the first flake i used every counter measure the forums suggest and till now it works like charm.
 
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There's no problem at all here...

Women love differently than men.....there's has to be admiration and respect.
That is to say to love you she must admire and respect you.

she's demonstrating her admiration and respect with that statement. What you need right
now is to go up one level until she's calling you daddy ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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