My current plate of 3 months has just made friends with another girl who I went with once, more or less the same time I was starting to date my plate. With the other girl it didnt go anywhere as we only had one date, but now my plate is telling me about her new friend (the other girl) all the time. Im starting to question weather they talked about me and now my plate is just waiting for me to tell her I went out with this girl. What should I do now, just say non chalantly I went out once with this other girl, or if I meet her (which could happen in the near future) just act surprised then and say something like "oh yea, we´ve met before" ?
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Nothing wrong telling her since you in position of power. Even make joke about it
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The hamster wheel is a spinning!!!!
From what you say, they didn't overlap. If you feel the need to say something then say "oh yea, I went on one date with her"
If anything arises after that, simply say "she was the past, you are my present, I moved on from her because she wasnt right for me. Eventually I found you and we are dating".
I subscribe to the mindset that, if you are not asked, you need not provide an answer.
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You got to just chill, man. If it comes up casually in the conversation make a brief passing comment, joke, and start a new topic, whatevs. I wouldn't worry about them being friends on Facebook. All that matters is what Juanto thinks of this new plate (additionally, is she worth investing more of your time with her?). Juanto is over the old plate. Remember your frame. The hamster, like sazc said will just drain your headspace from having fun with the new plate, hobbies, friends, family, work, school, etc.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I'd forget about the whole thing. If asked say we may have gone on one outing. Now that I think about it she smelled really good. And then change the susjet.
You got to just chill, man. If it comes up casually in the conversation make a brief passing comment, joke, and start a new topic, whatevs. I wouldn't worry about them being friends on Facebook. All that matters is what Juanto thinks of this new plate (additionally, is she worth investing more of your time with her?). Juanto is over the old plate. Remember your frame. The hamster, like sazc said will just drain your headspace from having fun with the new plate, hobbies, friends, family, work, school, etc.
My plate has told me almost the entire life of the other girl but I didnt cave and say I went on a date with her. I believe they overlapped but it was in the beginning as I was getting to know both.
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well, if it eventually comes up, just spin it the manner of "she wasnt important enough in my life for me to even mention, that's why I didnt bother"