No of course don’t get strung along. No where in my posts am I implying that guys pay for 30 dates before sex. Like I posted earlier women should be paying for some dates, not just expecting the guy to pay. If she does that’s a bad sign.Patience like 20-30 $50-$150 dates? The 3 date rule while it was invented by players to make sure they are fvcking now applies to all men to ensure they arent being strung along for dates.
Building sexual attraction through rapport etc is ideal of course, that’s what makes dating fun. If she’s stringling the guy along and he sense’s the interest is not building then clearly that’s a waste of his time.
But expecting her to follow dating rules that he set up in his head, not sure how that doesn’t lead to disappointment at times.
What’s wrong with going with the flow and actually enjoying the date and not strategically doing a sales pitch every step of the way? Plant a few flirty seeds and let her to a bit of the chasing. She already knows he wants to sleep with her if he asked her out, build some interest, be chill, confident, genuinely enjoying himself, she’s a bonus to the good time he probably would of had without her anyway. That kind of thing.
If there’s real attraction on her part then having to work for it a bit is actually enticing for her, like he’s a prize. Being sexually pushy often times comes across as being sexually desperate. And desperation is not a turn on for most women.