I sent her the message in the morning before she came at my place. Lotsa guys seem to be confused about that here.It depends really how often you f.uck.
IMO your frame can be often enforced if you will withold yourself from acting upon the urge as it shows that you are after something bigger in life (somewhat similar to sportsmen conserving energy, sexy girl or not around) and sex is just addition to your plans but it really depends.
Going after sex every time makes you look weak eventually (like well fed animal in mating season you are always ready).
When I still had frame in my former relationship I waited with escalation until my ex couldn't resist touching me and pretty much initiating or at least inviting me to initiate sex.
My friend went even further and knowing that girl is heavily after him, he ****ested her to the point she was angry on him that he doesn't want her (it was a lie, he did, it was just his game).
IMO you lost frame there, and your act was a wannabe-alpha act. Higher game requires being refined. Quality women are not into sexting. You either doing it to top SMV HB or don't waste your time sending her weak messages on FB or cell phone.
It may work if she is way below your SMV but I don't go into such relations (waste of time and resources) and you don't need much game with such women so asking on sosuave about advice is again meaningless really.