so im going to be spending time with my soon to be gf for new years eve. i dont really have any plans since its kinda last minute. i was going to a party but i kinda want some one on one time. anyone here wanna share some ideas?
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Plans for new years eve
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Yeah, take her back to your place after the party. Or go to her place.
This newyears I am chilling. I am 31 now and the thrill of partying at a club is over. I also don't have a GF so I will be at home with the family. I think this is the first time since I was 16 that I did not go out in newyears.
I guess I will stick with the old man route and stay home and be safe.
I guess I will stick with the old man route and stay home and be safe.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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wine? nigga im talking about champagne
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That sh!t is too soft cutty. I'm talkn bout Hennessy! :rockon:trojanman88 said:wine? nigga im talking about champagne
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Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
Some people enjoy staying in and relaxing as opposed to going out, especially on NYE. It's expensive, very crowded, excessive amount of drunks doing stupid things, etc. I have several friends that sit at home and watch their TV until midnight, then go to sleep. I just make sure to find the right people to hang out with.ILikeGirls<3 said:Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You're right I have to stop thinking with my ****. Hard habit to break though