"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Plans for new years eve

Oni

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so im going to be spending time with my soon to be gf for new years eve. i dont really have any plans since its kinda last minute. i was going to a party but i kinda want some one on one time. anyone here wanna share some ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, take her back to your place after the party. Or go to her place.
 

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This newyears I am chilling. I am 31 now and the thrill of partying at a club is over. I also don't have a GF so I will be at home with the family. I think this is the first time since I was 16 that I did not go out in newyears.

I guess I will stick with the old man route and stay home and be safe.
 

Oni

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im home for the holiday so things are different since my parents are here. i plan on counting down with her then move in for a kiss. but dont know where yet haha
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Effington

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Nothing wrong with just getting a couple bottles of wine and hanging out at home. It is so crowded and loud and obnoxious anywhere you go, biggest party day of the year.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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trojanman88 said:
wine? nigga im talking about champagne
That sh!t is too soft cutty. I'm talkn bout Hennessy! :rockon:
 

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Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
 

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ILikeGirls<3 said:
Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
Some people enjoy staying in and relaxing as opposed to going out, especially on NYE. It's expensive, very crowded, excessive amount of drunks doing stupid things, etc. I have several friends that sit at home and watch their TV until midnight, then go to sleep. I just make sure to find the right people to hang out with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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