so im going to be spending time with my soon to be gf for new years eve. i dont really have any plans since its kinda last minute. i was going to a party but i kinda want some one on one time. anyone here wanna share some ideas?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Plans for new years eve
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Yeah, take her back to your place after the party. Or go to her place.
This newyears I am chilling. I am 31 now and the thrill of partying at a club is over. I also don't have a GF so I will be at home with the family. I think this is the first time since I was 16 that I did not go out in newyears.
I guess I will stick with the old man route and stay home and be safe.
I guess I will stick with the old man route and stay home and be safe.
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wine? nigga im talking about champagne
I.A.F.Y.B.
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That sh!t is too soft cutty. I'm talkn bout Hennessy! :rockon:trojanman88 said:wine? nigga im talking about champagne
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Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
Some people enjoy staying in and relaxing as opposed to going out, especially on NYE. It's expensive, very crowded, excessive amount of drunks doing stupid things, etc. I have several friends that sit at home and watch their TV until midnight, then go to sleep. I just make sure to find the right people to hang out with.ILikeGirls<3 said:Friend A called 5 dudes, got blown off by 4 and 1 was staying in honest. My best friend called a kid who was having a party, and he wont answer. One girl I know is eating in with her parents... right. WTF so stuck up in New Jersey! I'm restless so I had to let a little AFC go lol, you can understand how frustrating this is. Not so much that I can't go to a bar myself which I can, but that my friends don't even care that they are sitting home doing nothing on New Years Eve. Does anyone on here have a friend who when you say, "Let's go out its New Years Eve." they go "So?"
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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You're right I have to stop thinking with my ****. Hard habit to break though