"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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planning on inviting her over for some sex

killerasp

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okay..so there is this girl im dating and she is virgin. anyhow, i got my own apt in the city and i want to invite her over to do the dirty deed. Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.

How could i phrase my invite to her to let her know that i want her over to dine and then possibly bed her but not exactly using those words.

most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.

any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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killerasp said:
Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.
Why does she has to spend the night? finish off the deed and send her on her way.

killerasp said:
most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.
It doesn't matter if you invite her on saturday night home or Valentine's day, if she is not comfortable with you yet then it ain't going to happen. Usually inexperienced girls follow the bases rule. If you already got her into third base (where you stimulated each other's with your hands) then its more likely she will be ready for sex. If you haven't reached that point then she might not agree to go farther. But hey you got alcohol in your place to loosen her up don't you???!
 

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we've only reached heavy kissing mainly due to the fact that when we go out, we are in the public. i dont think she would think too highly of me if tried grabbing a boob in public. but DJDamage brings up a good point. being that she is a V, i will most likely need to circle the bases first before stepping up to home run.

i will have to lower my expectations when she comes over this weekend. but none the less, it will still be progress.
 

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Cook some lasaunga, drink some cheap beer, laugh, and kino. It'll work out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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