"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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planning on inviting her over for some sex

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okay..so there is this girl im dating and she is virgin. anyhow, i got my own apt in the city and i want to invite her over to do the dirty deed. Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.

How could i phrase my invite to her to let her know that i want her over to dine and then possibly bed her but not exactly using those words.

most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.

any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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killerasp said:
Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.
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Why does she has to spend the night? finish off the deed and send her on her way.

killerasp said:
most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.
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It doesn't matter if you invite her on saturday night home or Valentine's day, if she is not comfortable with you yet then it ain't going to happen. Usually inexperienced girls follow the bases rule. If you already got her into third base (where you stimulated each other's with your hands) then its more likely she will be ready for sex. If you haven't reached that point then she might not agree to go farther. But hey you got alcohol in your place to loosen her up don't you???!
 
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we've only reached heavy kissing mainly due to the fact that when we go out, we are in the public. i dont think she would think too highly of me if tried grabbing a boob in public. but DJDamage brings up a good point. being that she is a V, i will most likely need to circle the bases first before stepping up to home run.

i will have to lower my expectations when she comes over this weekend. but none the less, it will still be progress.
 
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Cook some lasaunga, drink some cheap beer, laugh, and kino. It'll work out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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