"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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planning on inviting her over for some sex

killerasp

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okay..so there is this girl im dating and she is virgin. anyhow, i got my own apt in the city and i want to invite her over to do the dirty deed. Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.

How could i phrase my invite to her to let her know that i want her over to dine and then possibly bed her but not exactly using those words.

most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.

any suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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killerasp said:
Problem is she lives at home with her rents. While she is free to do what she wants, im sure her rents would be worred if their daughter didnt come home one night with her telling them.
Why does she has to spend the night? finish off the deed and send her on her way.

killerasp said:
most girls will get the idea when a guy invites them over on a saturday night it isnt for a night session of kitting and baking.

i just want her to be aware that yes..i want to have dinner with you..yes...i want to sleep with you...and yes..tell your rents you aint coming home tonight.
It doesn't matter if you invite her on saturday night home or Valentine's day, if she is not comfortable with you yet then it ain't going to happen. Usually inexperienced girls follow the bases rule. If you already got her into third base (where you stimulated each other's with your hands) then its more likely she will be ready for sex. If you haven't reached that point then she might not agree to go farther. But hey you got alcohol in your place to loosen her up don't you???!
 

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we've only reached heavy kissing mainly due to the fact that when we go out, we are in the public. i dont think she would think too highly of me if tried grabbing a boob in public. but DJDamage brings up a good point. being that she is a V, i will most likely need to circle the bases first before stepping up to home run.

i will have to lower my expectations when she comes over this weekend. but none the less, it will still be progress.
 

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Cook some lasaunga, drink some cheap beer, laugh, and kino. It'll work out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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