we all eat food
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I need a place to work, were I can up my social skills, any ideas?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Place To Work
- Thread starter we all eat food
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
2 weeks ago i got ajob at grocery store in meat deparment...while serving the customers i think ive talked more in these 2 weeks than in my whole ****ing life. i was always quiet and shy...but im seeing improvements, things are getting better finally. it will deffinetly help you
adpreston1988
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Where's the best place to work part-time while in college? Currently I'm working at a tutoring/learning center with elementary and middle school children. I'm planning on working part-time throughout the school year unless I can't handle my school work load. But if possible, I'd rather find a better job w/ higher pay somewhere. Any suggestions?
originaldj
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I aslo recommend working ata grocery store. You are forced to make friends with your coworkers who are usually around your age and you talk to a lot of strangers. You know you changed when you stop giving a shyt about pleasing the customers, and dont care if you piss them off. I think I am almost there.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
The mall man...this is a no brainer yo. 