we all eat food
Senior Don Juan
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I need a place to work, were I can up my social skills, any ideas?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Place To Work
- Thread starter we all eat food
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
2 weeks ago i got ajob at grocery store in meat deparment...while serving the customers i think ive talked more in these 2 weeks than in my whole ****ing life. i was always quiet and shy...but im seeing improvements, things are getting better finally. it will deffinetly help you
adpreston1988
Don Juan
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Where's the best place to work part-time while in college? Currently I'm working at a tutoring/learning center with elementary and middle school children. I'm planning on working part-time throughout the school year unless I can't handle my school work load. But if possible, I'd rather find a better job w/ higher pay somewhere. Any suggestions?
originaldj
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I aslo recommend working ata grocery store. You are forced to make friends with your coworkers who are usually around your age and you talk to a lot of strangers. You know you changed when you stop giving a shyt about pleasing the customers, and dont care if you piss them off. I think I am almost there.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
The mall man...this is a no brainer yo. 