we all eat food
Senior Don Juan
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I need a place to work, were I can up my social skills, any ideas?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Place To Work
- Thread starter we all eat food
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
2 weeks ago i got ajob at grocery store in meat deparment...while serving the customers i think ive talked more in these 2 weeks than in my whole ****ing life. i was always quiet and shy...but im seeing improvements, things are getting better finally. it will deffinetly help you
adpreston1988
Don Juan
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Where's the best place to work part-time while in college? Currently I'm working at a tutoring/learning center with elementary and middle school children. I'm planning on working part-time throughout the school year unless I can't handle my school work load. But if possible, I'd rather find a better job w/ higher pay somewhere. Any suggestions?
originaldj
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I aslo recommend working ata grocery store. You are forced to make friends with your coworkers who are usually around your age and you talk to a lot of strangers. You know you changed when you stop giving a shyt about pleasing the customers, and dont care if you piss them off. I think I am almost there.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
The mall man...this is a no brainer yo. 