"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Pinging vs Radio Silence

EmotionalGeek

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dude99

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
Ping to set dates.

Radio silence the rest of the time.
 

kintsugi

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Ping girls that have fallen off the list. You haven't seen them for a few months - just ping them, if they are receptive you will know.
Radio silence is effectively dread. I use this to get space from girls who start trying to claim boyfriend/girlfriend status.
 

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Oh... pinging daily... I think the frequency is too high. If you are seeing a plate then just ping to meet up but def don't ping too often = needy = beta = turn-off.
 
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