"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pinging vs Radio Silence

EmotionalGeek

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dude99

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
Ping to set dates.

Radio silence the rest of the time.
 

kintsugi

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Ping girls that have fallen off the list. You haven't seen them for a few months - just ping them, if they are receptive you will know.
Radio silence is effectively dread. I use this to get space from girls who start trying to claim boyfriend/girlfriend status.
 

kintsugi

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Oh... pinging daily... I think the frequency is too high. If you are seeing a plate then just ping to meet up but def don't ping too often = needy = beta = turn-off.
 
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