"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pinging vs Radio Silence

EmotionalGeek

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude99

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
Ping to set dates.

Radio silence the rest of the time.
 

kintsugi

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Ping girls that have fallen off the list. You haven't seen them for a few months - just ping them, if they are receptive you will know.
Radio silence is effectively dread. I use this to get space from girls who start trying to claim boyfriend/girlfriend status.
 

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Oh... pinging daily... I think the frequency is too high. If you are seeing a plate then just ping to meet up but def don't ping too often = needy = beta = turn-off.
 
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