"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pinging vs Radio Silence

EmotionalGeek

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude99

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Pinging and radio silence are two opposite techniques that are meant to spark her interest in you. In pinging you send one message roughly daily. In radio silence you stop sending her those messages. So I wonder when you use pinging and when you use radio silence.
Ping to set dates.

Radio silence the rest of the time.
 

kintsugi

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Ping girls that have fallen off the list. You haven't seen them for a few months - just ping them, if they are receptive you will know.
Radio silence is effectively dread. I use this to get space from girls who start trying to claim boyfriend/girlfriend status.
 

kintsugi

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Oh... pinging daily... I think the frequency is too high. If you are seeing a plate then just ping to meet up but def don't ping too often = needy = beta = turn-off.
 
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