"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
and unlike qwerty I am sh1tting on your idea. sry man
Potbelly said:
Dang, don't be so paranoid. He's not gonna fap to it. He wants to see what other people are working with.
There are lots of people on the internet, and you never know who's some fat guy who pretend he hooks up all day long. Or who always seems to have it so easy picking up girls and then you see a picture and you see that he's a really good looking guy and you say, "Well duh, of course he can pick up chicks."
Anyway, I'd probably post mine if there was a thread for it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
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Edit: Yorgho don't let me be alone damnit post yours lmao.
I'll just take mine down if this never takes off the ground, but we should start one up guys, what if our next door neighbors were DJs
.P.S. Those are some pearly white sinks in my pic
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
There has been some drama in a few threads around here recently getting pretty heated about someone proving who they are. I don't mind your idea though, but I'm just saying you could have picked a better time to start this thread. Then again it sounds like you didnt know what is going downYesPlease said:
*edit* nice 1 pooparu you look like a dude who one was of my best friends back in High School
trans_am03
Don Juan
If you have a issue about posting your picture your either, a) Worried about the whole rape, stalk thing that can happen sometimes when someone talks to someone else tey don't know online, or b) your just insecure about your looks and aren't everything you proclaim to be.Potbelly said:
Seriously, if I was gay I would not be on a forum about improving sucess with girls. If I was gay and wanted to have a wank I would download some gay porn rather than going to the trouble of trying to persuade someone to post a picture of himself.
I'm just hear to for advice on how to become more confident. There is some good advice on this forum but there is also a lot of bollocks from guys just sayign stuff like "OMG I JUST HAD A THREE SOME WITH THIS HB10 AND HER MUM" A lot of it is clearly see through and I just want to see if people are what they say they are.
Don't want to post your picture? Then don't.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
BWAHAHAHAHA! :crackup: man the forum has been fun today, Im usually not on for so long but its been excitin lolYesPlease said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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pooparu
Senior Don Juan
To transam, instead of getting drunk and walking for 10 miles, I'll one up you and say try getting stoned and walking for 10 miles, touche
.Oh and P.S. - The steorotypes are true, mine is bigger than yours
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I'm a little underexposed, probably because I got my camera meter reading off the white shirt (hard to take pictures of yourself you know). Oh and my hair isn't done, not like it matters for a bunch of guys right?
Anyway,
Shoes - Hugo Boss
Jeans - Diesel
Shirt - Reunion
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Here is a new link on imageshack maybe it works now:
http://img45.imageshack.us/img45/7929/picmr1.jpg
Cheers!
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
.typical
Master Don Juan
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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