"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
and unlike qwerty I am sh1tting on your idea. sry man
Potbelly said:
Dang, don't be so paranoid. He's not gonna fap to it. He wants to see what other people are working with.
There are lots of people on the internet, and you never know who's some fat guy who pretend he hooks up all day long. Or who always seems to have it so easy picking up girls and then you see a picture and you see that he's a really good looking guy and you say, "Well duh, of course he can pick up chicks."
Anyway, I'd probably post mine if there was a thread for it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
http://img53.imageshack.us/img53/4197/meqp9.jpg
Edit: Yorgho don't let me be alone damnit post yours lmao.
I'll just take mine down if this never takes off the ground, but we should start one up guys, what if our next door neighbors were DJs
.P.S. Those are some pearly white sinks in my pic
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
There has been some drama in a few threads around here recently getting pretty heated about someone proving who they are. I don't mind your idea though, but I'm just saying you could have picked a better time to start this thread. Then again it sounds like you didnt know what is going downYesPlease said:
*edit* nice 1 pooparu you look like a dude who one was of my best friends back in High School
trans_am03
Don Juan
If you have a issue about posting your picture your either, a) Worried about the whole rape, stalk thing that can happen sometimes when someone talks to someone else tey don't know online, or b) your just insecure about your looks and aren't everything you proclaim to be.Potbelly said:
Seriously, if I was gay I would not be on a forum about improving sucess with girls. If I was gay and wanted to have a wank I would download some gay porn rather than going to the trouble of trying to persuade someone to post a picture of himself.
I'm just hear to for advice on how to become more confident. There is some good advice on this forum but there is also a lot of bollocks from guys just sayign stuff like "OMG I JUST HAD A THREE SOME WITH THIS HB10 AND HER MUM" A lot of it is clearly see through and I just want to see if people are what they say they are.
Don't want to post your picture? Then don't.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
BWAHAHAHAHA! :crackup: man the forum has been fun today, Im usually not on for so long but its been excitin lolYesPlease said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
http://img128.imageshack.us/img128/4495/353571149lyh8.jpg
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
To transam, instead of getting drunk and walking for 10 miles, I'll one up you and say try getting stoned and walking for 10 miles, touche
.Oh and P.S. - The steorotypes are true, mine is bigger than yours
.http://img122.imageshack.us/my.php?image=casualas5.jpg
I'm a little underexposed, probably because I got my camera meter reading off the white shirt (hard to take pictures of yourself you know). Oh and my hair isn't done, not like it matters for a bunch of guys right?
Anyway,
Shoes - Hugo Boss
Jeans - Diesel
Shirt - Reunion
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Here is a new link on imageshack maybe it works now:
http://img45.imageshack.us/img45/7929/picmr1.jpg
Cheers!
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
.typical
Master Don Juan
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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