"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Post a picture of yourself in this thread. (not seen a picture thread on this forum so thought I'd make one. Also saw someone else suggest it before)

I'll post mine in about an hour when I'm on a computer with pics of me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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With all thats been going on the past 24 or so hours I don't think you could have picked a worse time to suggest this. I'm not shi tting on your idea, just the bad timing.
 

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With all thats been going on the past 24 or so hours I don't think you could have picked a worse time to suggest this. I'm not shi tting on your idea, just the bad timing.
lol, sorry?
 

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WHY DO YOU WANT TO SEE ANOTHER MALE'S PICTURE WTF??!? ? Dude seriously I am irked by people who want me or other strangers to post their pictures ... wtf are they gonna use it for?? etC??? big question is why

and unlike qwerty I am sh1tting on your idea. sry man
 

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Potbelly said:
WHY DO YOU WANT TO SEE ANOTHER MALE'S PICTURE WTF??!? ? Dude seriously I am irked by people who want me or other strangers to post their pictures ... wtf are they gonna use it for?? etC??? big question is why

and unlike qwerty I am sh1tting on your idea. sry man

Dang, don't be so paranoid. He's not gonna fap to it. He wants to see what other people are working with.

There are lots of people on the internet, and you never know who's some fat guy who pretend he hooks up all day long. Or who always seems to have it so easy picking up girls and then you see a picture and you see that he's a really good looking guy and you say, "Well duh, of course he can pick up chicks."

Anyway, I'd probably post mine if there was a thread for it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I had just asked if anyone wanted to do it. I guess I'll hop on with my myspace pic, I'll just take it down later if no one else posts theres:


http://img53.imageshack.us/img53/4197/meqp9.jpg

Edit: Yorgho don't let me be alone damnit post yours lmao.

I'll just take mine down if this never takes off the ground, but we should start one up guys, what if our next door neighbors were DJs :p.

P.S. Those are some pearly white sinks in my pic ;)
 

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YesPlease said:
lol, sorry?
There has been some drama in a few threads around here recently getting pretty heated about someone proving who they are. I don't mind your idea though, but I'm just saying you could have picked a better time to start this thread. Then again it sounds like you didnt know what is going down

*edit* nice 1 pooparu you look like a dude who one was of my best friends back in High School
 

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WHY DO YOU WANT TO SEE ANOTHER MALE'S PICTURE WTF??!? ?
If you have a issue about posting your picture your either, a) Worried about the whole rape, stalk thing that can happen sometimes when someone talks to someone else tey don't know online, or b) your just insecure about your looks and aren't everything you proclaim to be.

Seriously, if I was gay I would not be on a forum about improving sucess with girls. If I was gay and wanted to have a wank I would download some gay porn rather than going to the trouble of trying to persuade someone to post a picture of himself.

I'm just hear to for advice on how to become more confident. There is some good advice on this forum but there is also a lot of bollocks from guys just sayign stuff like "OMG I JUST HAD A THREE SOME WITH THIS HB10 AND HER MUM" A lot of it is clearly see through and I just want to see if people are what they say they are.

Don't want to post your picture? Then don't.
 

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Seriously, if I was gay I would not be on a forum about improving sucess with girls. If I was gay and wanted to have a wank I would download some gay porn rather than going to the trouble of trying to persuade someone to post a picture of himself.
BWAHAHAHAHA! :crackup: man the forum has been fun today, Im usually not on for so long but its been excitin lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BWAHAHAHAHA! :crackup: man the forum has been fun today, Im usually not on for so long but its been excitin lol
haha your posts just go right over my head. Whats funny?
 

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Taviii I'm assuming not being able to see you is supposed to happen in the pic? or is my monitor just ****ed up? (Its been ****ed up for a while).

To transam, instead of getting drunk and walking for 10 miles, I'll one up you and say try getting stoned and walking for 10 miles, touche :p.





















Oh and P.S. - The steorotypes are true, mine is bigger than yours :p.
 

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kk Here's me.

http://img122.imageshack.us/my.php?image=casualas5.jpg

I'm a little underexposed, probably because I got my camera meter reading off the white shirt (hard to take pictures of yourself you know). Oh and my hair isn't done, not like it matters for a bunch of guys right?

Anyway,
Shoes - Hugo Boss
Jeans - Diesel
Shirt - Reunion
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's my computer monitor man never mind, like I see you but my monitor is so dark I can't really see your face, it's not you...it's me :p.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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