"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
and unlike qwerty I am sh1tting on your idea. sry man
Potbelly said:
Dang, don't be so paranoid. He's not gonna fap to it. He wants to see what other people are working with.
There are lots of people on the internet, and you never know who's some fat guy who pretend he hooks up all day long. Or who always seems to have it so easy picking up girls and then you see a picture and you see that he's a really good looking guy and you say, "Well duh, of course he can pick up chicks."
Anyway, I'd probably post mine if there was a thread for it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
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Edit: Yorgho don't let me be alone damnit post yours lmao.
I'll just take mine down if this never takes off the ground, but we should start one up guys, what if our next door neighbors were DJs
.P.S. Those are some pearly white sinks in my pic
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
There has been some drama in a few threads around here recently getting pretty heated about someone proving who they are. I don't mind your idea though, but I'm just saying you could have picked a better time to start this thread. Then again it sounds like you didnt know what is going downYesPlease said:
*edit* nice 1 pooparu you look like a dude who one was of my best friends back in High School
trans_am03
Don Juan
If you have a issue about posting your picture your either, a) Worried about the whole rape, stalk thing that can happen sometimes when someone talks to someone else tey don't know online, or b) your just insecure about your looks and aren't everything you proclaim to be.Potbelly said:
Seriously, if I was gay I would not be on a forum about improving sucess with girls. If I was gay and wanted to have a wank I would download some gay porn rather than going to the trouble of trying to persuade someone to post a picture of himself.
I'm just hear to for advice on how to become more confident. There is some good advice on this forum but there is also a lot of bollocks from guys just sayign stuff like "OMG I JUST HAD A THREE SOME WITH THIS HB10 AND HER MUM" A lot of it is clearly see through and I just want to see if people are what they say they are.
Don't want to post your picture? Then don't.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
BWAHAHAHAHA! :crackup: man the forum has been fun today, Im usually not on for so long but its been excitin lolYesPlease said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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pooparu
Senior Don Juan
To transam, instead of getting drunk and walking for 10 miles, I'll one up you and say try getting stoned and walking for 10 miles, touche
.Oh and P.S. - The steorotypes are true, mine is bigger than yours
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I'm a little underexposed, probably because I got my camera meter reading off the white shirt (hard to take pictures of yourself you know). Oh and my hair isn't done, not like it matters for a bunch of guys right?
Anyway,
Shoes - Hugo Boss
Jeans - Diesel
Shirt - Reunion
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Here is a new link on imageshack maybe it works now:
http://img45.imageshack.us/img45/7929/picmr1.jpg
Cheers!
pooparu
Senior Don Juan
.typical
Master Don Juan
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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