"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pics!!!!
- Thread starter backbreaker
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
31 yoChrizZ said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers
BTW...I hate to play up the race stereotypes, but I've got to say, you're the first black guy I've ever heard of who was into horseracing...lol!
Props for having the guts to post pics of yourself and your chicas. I would post some pics, but that would be the weirdest thing if somebody I knew ever ran across them here.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
you ovbiously haven't met my dad.
nah.. I'm pretty athletic.. but that pic you see is a year of hard work. I was 230 and 33% body fat at one point.
http://media.collegepublisher.com/media/paper868/stills/40304649e7e61-88-1.gif
my older cousin.. 6'9 without shoes. my dad and his mom are sisters and brothers. However he has more than a foot on me in height (ovbiously) but I have a higher (much) vertical
can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I've been telling you guys... it's like going out to a dirt field with diamonds all under it. look at her on the horse.. she's pretty strongI just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ok that's cool. Its mostly just an observation without necessarily any meaning. My wifey is 130, 5'8" so I like em on the slim side, but for me I prefer them taller. Ive dated shorter women before, of course, but much shorter than 5'4" is just too short for me.backbreaker said:can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
what's going on back in the rock?
Last Man Standing
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 18, 2006
- Messages
- 3,956
- Reaction score
- 37
If I were a 50 year old man then she is a "catch"!! As a 24 y/o male she is below average!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Last Man Standing said:
I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
Last Man Standing
Banned
- Joined
- Mar 18, 2006
- Messages
- 3,956
- Reaction score
- 37
As long as you, and she, understand your/her station in life, then it is what it is -- butttttttttttt, men tend to get attached to one woman who is loyal to him, although she is not worthy of his undivided attention - such is The Natural Order Of Things!!! The man decides who he is loyal to!!!backbreaker said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think you've been reading too many commercial PUA sites that downplay looks/race/location/attributes in order to appeal to desperate beta males.ValleyDJing said:
BB's only real physical DLV is his lack of height. Everything else pretty much works strongly in his favor here in the US. It's no wonder he scores high when you do the real math.
DeuceDeuce
New Member
- Joined
- Sep 11, 2005
- Messages
- 4
- Reaction score
- 0