"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Pics!!!!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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31 yoChrizZ said:
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No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers
BTW...I hate to play up the race stereotypes, but I've got to say, you're the first black guy I've ever heard of who was into horseracing...lol!
Props for having the guts to post pics of yourself and your chicas. I would post some pics, but that would be the weirdest thing if somebody I knew ever ran across them here.
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you ovbiously haven't met my dad.
nah.. I'm pretty athletic.. but that pic you see is a year of hard work. I was 230 and 33% body fat at one point.
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my older cousin.. 6'9 without shoes. my dad and his mom are sisters and brothers. However he has more than a foot on me in height (ovbiously) but I have a higher (much) vertical
can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I've been telling you guys... it's like going out to a dirt field with diamonds all under it. look at her on the horse.. she's pretty strongI just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ok that's cool. Its mostly just an observation without necessarily any meaning. My wifey is 130, 5'8" so I like em on the slim side, but for me I prefer them taller. Ive dated shorter women before, of course, but much shorter than 5'4" is just too short for me.backbreaker said:can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
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what's going on back in the rock?
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If I were a 50 year old man then she is a "catch"!! As a 24 y/o male she is below average!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Last Man Standing said:
I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
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As long as you, and she, understand your/her station in life, then it is what it is -- butttttttttttt, men tend to get attached to one woman who is loyal to him, although she is not worthy of his undivided attention - such is The Natural Order Of Things!!! The man decides who he is loyal to!!!backbreaker said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I think you've been reading too many commercial PUA sites that downplay looks/race/location/attributes in order to appeal to desperate beta males.ValleyDJing said:
BB's only real physical DLV is his lack of height. Everything else pretty much works strongly in his favor here in the US. It's no wonder he scores high when you do the real math.
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