“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Backbreaker man...I've got to say, I'm a little disappointed. Here I was picturing you as a skinny white dude with glasses. You were such an inspiration to me, making bank, grabbing tail, balling with Tracy McGrady.

No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers

BTW...I hate to play up the race stereotypes, but I've got to say, you're the first black guy I've ever heard of who was into horseracing...lol!

Props for having the guts to post pics of yourself and your chicas. I would post some pics, but that would be the weirdest thing if somebody I knew ever ran across them here.
 

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BTW...I hate to play up the race stereotypes, but I've got to say, you're the first black guy I've ever heard of who was into horseracing...lol!
you ovbiously haven't met my dad.

No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers
nah.. I'm pretty athletic.. but that pic you see is a year of hard work. I was 230 and 33% body fat at one point.

http://media.collegepublisher.com/media/paper868/stills/40304649e7e61-88-1.gif

my older cousin.. 6'9 without shoes. my dad and his mom are sisters and brothers. However he has more than a foot on me in height (ovbiously) but I have a higher (much) vertical

in other words, very short and light (aka a jockey).
can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.;) I've been telling you guys... it's like going out to a dirt field with diamonds all under it. look at her on the horse.. she's pretty strong

I just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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backbreaker said:
can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.;) I've been telling you guys... it's like going out to a dirt field with diamonds all under it. look at her on the horse.. she's pretty strong

I just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
Ok that's cool. Its mostly just an observation without necessarily any meaning. My wifey is 130, 5'8" so I like em on the slim side, but for me I prefer them taller. Ive dated shorter women before, of course, but much shorter than 5'4" is just too short for me.
 

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if you can't tell by the pic her and I are eyeball to eyeball and hovers between 110 and 115
 

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backbreaker said:
if you can't tell by the pic her and I are eyeball to eyeball and hovers between 110 and 115
I guess i didn't see it; a pic with you two standing next to each other.
 
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She is too old for you for a "committed" relationship!!!! Go after a 18 year old - minimum!!! A 31 year old female has had everyone already - don't be a fool!!!!

If I were a 50 year old man then she is a "catch"!! As a 24 y/o male she is below average!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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backbreaker said:
what's going on back in the rock?
Its a bit slow this time of year, and hot as hades. I keep busy though!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
She is too old for you for a "committed" relationship!!!! Go after a 18 year old - minimum!!! A 31 year old female has had everyone already - don't be a fool!!!!

If I were a 50 year old man then she is a "catch"!! As a 24 y/o male she is below average!!!

I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
 

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I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
You do realize you're attempting to reason with LMS, right? :nono:

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I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
As long as you, and she, understand your/her station in life, then it is what it is -- butttttttttttt, men tend to get attached to one woman who is loyal to him, although she is not worthy of his undivided attention - such is The Natural Order Of Things!!! The man decides who he is loyal to!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ValleyDJing said:
Backbreaker man...I've got to say, I'm a little disappointed. Here I was picturing you as a skinny white dude with glasses. You were such an inspiration to me, making bank, grabbing tail, balling with Tracy McGrady.

No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers
I think you've been reading too many commercial PUA sites that downplay looks/race/location/attributes in order to appeal to desperate beta males.

BB's only real physical DLV is his lack of height. Everything else pretty much works strongly in his favor here in the US. It's no wonder he scores high when you do the real math.
 

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Wayword, I always look at your sig with that last comment, and always say "**** no, who wants to listen to that train wreck of a situation?"
 

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Hey backbreaker my bad, but your pics aren't working anymore, it is saying that you've moved them to photobucket
 
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