"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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31 yoChrizZ said:
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No homo, but you're a pretty good looking dude, its no wonder you're pulling tail. And you're certainly not a skinny white guy, so its no longer the underdog story I pictured, seeing you compete against future NBAers
BTW...I hate to play up the race stereotypes, but I've got to say, you're the first black guy I've ever heard of who was into horseracing...lol!
Props for having the guts to post pics of yourself and your chicas. I would post some pics, but that would be the weirdest thing if somebody I knew ever ran across them here.
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you ovbiously haven't met my dad.
nah.. I'm pretty athletic.. but that pic you see is a year of hard work. I was 230 and 33% body fat at one point.
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my older cousin.. 6'9 without shoes. my dad and his mom are sisters and brothers. However he has more than a foot on me in height (ovbiously) but I have a higher (much) vertical
can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I've been telling you guys... it's like going out to a dirt field with diamonds all under it. look at her on the horse.. she's pretty strongI just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok that's cool. Its mostly just an observation without necessarily any meaning. My wifey is 130, 5'8" so I like em on the slim side, but for me I prefer them taller. Ive dated shorter women before, of course, but much shorter than 5'4" is just too short for me.backbreaker said:can't be any bigger than 120....however you won't find a job in the morning if you are a pound over 110.
I just found out she used to date a pretty famous jockey
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what's going on back in the rock?
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If I were a 50 year old man then she is a "catch"!! As a 24 y/o male she is below average!!!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Last Man Standing said:
I'm committed in the sense that I don't feel like fvcking anyone else right now besides her. I'm not getting married. I'm living in the moment and she makes me happy.. is there a problem with that? isn't that whole idea of it all?
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As long as you, and she, understand your/her station in life, then it is what it is -- butttttttttttt, men tend to get attached to one woman who is loyal to him, although she is not worthy of his undivided attention - such is The Natural Order Of Things!!! The man decides who he is loyal to!!!backbreaker said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think you've been reading too many commercial PUA sites that downplay looks/race/location/attributes in order to appeal to desperate beta males.ValleyDJing said:
BB's only real physical DLV is his lack of height. Everything else pretty much works strongly in his favor here in the US. It's no wonder he scores high when you do the real math.
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