"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Picky chick says, "I don't like anything about any of the people I'm meeting, or talking to, or going on dates with"

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There was probably like one guy in the last like two months that I kind of liked ... and he's just like not in a place to date anybody right now or be in any kind of relationship ...
It's 10 o'clock ... I mean I could do anything with my night ... I'm just getting sick of being by myself all the time ... it's the second week of January and I have gone on a date each week so far so you can't say I'm not trying ... and this guy I didn't even meet on a dating app ... I met him in person last weekend, but he's just boring (tee-hee)
How will I ever afford a house by myself ... that's like the main issue ... fück being single forever ... but I don't wanna be homeless"
my opinion of her future:

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Nothing feels right!!" decries the delusional narcissist in the time-stamped section

What do these women have in common? ALL of them are heavy Koolaidholics. They all drink it to some degree, but the ones who slam it straight from the bottle are obvious, as in the video.
 

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This is a common event for women. Women are getting fussier than ever as they now have more options than ever.
 

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It ain't our job, as men, to fix scatterbrained b-tches like those in these videos. As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
I've attended singles mixers. They are generally a waste of time. Most men don't get any first dates out of attending them, let alone quality first dates.

Most business networking events are also a waste of time. They rarely lead to new job interviews for those seeking jobs or new business deals closed for sales reps seeking new business.
 

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my opinion of her future:

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Perfect example of a woman who has options but her options aren't good enough to her, even the option that would be great boyfriend material or a decent guy she deems as "boring" when she does meet the guy she "likes" he will he just pumpNdump her.

A lot of women in 2024 have over-estimated their market value due to being pumpNdump by the men they really want and then end up making TikTok videos like this, she probably has a plethora of great guys who make great boyfriends or husbands or have potential to be but those guys aren't the ones she wants
 

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I've attended singles mixers. They are generally a waste of time. Most men don't get any first dates out of attending them, let alone quality first dates.

Most business networking events are also a waste of time. They rarely lead to new job interviews for those seeking jobs or new business deals closed for sales reps seeking new business.
Both are the equivalent of a stand-up comic instructing The MC to introduce him with words to the effect of "This is guy is f-cking hilarious, so prepare to piss yourself laughing". When we walk into a scenario with hard and fast expectations, and are highly attached to those expectations, we almost always end up disappointed in the results
 

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Probably because she is going out with lame dudes that are her doormat, dudes with no job, no car, no future or weirdos. That's 90% of what's on OLD
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It ain't our job, as men, to fix scatterbrained b-tches like those in these videos. As to why men don't attend singles mixers... Same reason truly prosperous people don't frequent networking events. This s-it doesn't pan out, when everyone walks in with bloated expectations
Actually, the one place where I have had luck in dating in the USA had been singles events. :eek: Of course, while a chick that has gone a while without a date will lower her standards a bit, eventually she thinks to herself, "am I so desperate I need to date this short guy?", and then it is OVER for me. :mad::mad::mad:
 

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Probably because she is going out with lame dudes that are her doormat, dudes with no job, no car, no future or weirdos. That's 90% of what's on OLD
I can personally attest to the fact that having a job, car & future is not enough to get a (childless, non-obese) woman. :mad::mad::mad:
 

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I can personally attest to the fact that having a job, car & future is not enough to get a (childless, non-obese) woman. :mad::mad::mad:
“That I find attractive” should be stuck on the end of your post. You’re most likely trying to swing above your average.
 

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Actually, the one place where I have had luck in dating in the USA had been singles events. :eek:
Never asserted a fella CAN'T find women at such functions.... The flings and unions which ensue are generally nowhere near as fulfilling as those one gets out of women you meet at art shows and the like though

Analogy: It's possible to still have a relatively happy life remaining in South Central LA, rather than moving up in the world to Beverly Hills. You're chances of living to be a ripe old age, instead of getting gunned down in your own living room, are much higher if you switch locations
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Perfect example of a woman who has options but her options aren't good enough to her, even the option that would be great boyfriend material or a decent guy she deems as "boring" when she does meet the guy she "likes" he will he just pumpNdump her.

A lot of women in 2024 have over-estimated their market value due to being pumpNdump by the men they really want and then end up making TikTok videos like this, she probably has a plethora of great guys who make great boyfriends or husbands or have potential to be but those guys aren't the ones she wants
You can almost hear the affirmations running through her head.
 

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my opinion of her future:

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She's in the cute range. A solid looking prospect. I'm thinking she's late 20s/early 30s.

On looks alone, she would be appealing to a lot of men.

She was in a bad headspace when that video was made. It was made in January and it's now July so perhaps she's in a better spot to date right now.

She would have some good options on the market now.
 

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Although such videos can be entertaining (and get old quickly), do those making and watching them think shaming in them will result in anything? I highly doubt that female anti-social behavior is going to be tamed any time soon because a generous amount of content creators are ridiculing it. Besides, social and legal measures to end it are antithetical to the aim of most men here: screw many women! If that was my aim, I would want a never-ending supply of the sort of unscrupulous, family-alienated reckless, fatherless, and impulsive women featured in such videos.
 

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“That I find attractive” should be stuck on the end of your post. You’re most likely trying to swing above your average.
All the time I see men saying there “are no good women”, we endlessly complain about them wanting this or that and rile about how unfair it is, yet we never consider it the same as a woman wanting 666, as they say. Very hypocritical.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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