"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Picking a Martial arts dojo

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To all you Karate Connoisseurs out here, what are some the qualities you look for in a legit school? I'm thinking of taking Muay Thai when I come back to America, I'll probably try out for one day and get the feel and then decide if the whole experience is worth it. I'm also interested in Aikido, I might also try out a class in that aswell.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Might go around June or July depending on family obligations. Ive gotten in really good physical shape out here, I hope to maintain it by doing more cooking and working out at that park near my house.
 

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Might go around June or July depending on family obligations. Ive gotten in really good physical shape out here, I hope to maintain it by doing more cooking and working out at that park near my house.
How long are you staying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I love Thai boxing. Some things to look for:

This goes for any sort of (Muay Thai, BJJ etc) a really good academy will have an alumni / 'fighter' section on website of all athletes who train there. I don't think you're trying to go professional or anything so this isn't really important ----

Most important thing will be transparency. Good places will let you drop in at least once and you can get feel for place. Things to look out for: is place clean, equipment (bags to use etc), are people actually sparring (very empty place or people just standing around is not good sign) / the frequency this occur, is staff forthcoming/answer questions especially about schedule & pricing (if just shove contract in your face without explaining much of anything is a bad sign). Are the trainers respected/legitimate? Doesn't have to be successful like Payakaroon but should be someone who loves the martial art and preferably has competed before (don't want like glorified fitness instructor who "dabbled" in Muay Thai one weekend).

Age of attendees ---> some martial arts places cater to more younger crowd (obviously you want adult oriented place).

Local reviews of place will provide you with enough information to make determination. Just a matter of then visiting and seeing if like the vibe. Use what above as things to look out for. Keep clinching
 

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To all you Karate Connoisseurs out here, what are some the qualities you look for in a legit school?
Instructors and students who are decorated head to to toe in laceration scars, and who boast at least few fake teeth, thanks to the natural ones being taken out in real-time combat. 98% of what masquerades as "training" these days is essentially LARPing as a samurai
 

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Instructors and students who are decorated head to to toe in laceration scars, and who boast at least few fake teeth, thanks to the natural ones being taken out in real-time combat. 98% of what masquerades as "training" these days is essentially LARPing as a samurai
If he trained Akido and then got in a real fight, he wouldn't be around any more to post all these spam-generated nonsense threads.
 

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If he trained Akido and then got in a real fight, he wouldn't be around any more to post all these spam-generated nonsense threads.

have you trained in Aikido before? You do know most popular fights in mma are rigged and scripted because of $$$$ and Vegas bettings right? So where do you get your real life fighting inspirations from?
 

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have you trained in Aikido before? You do know most popular fights in mma are rigged and scripted because of $$$$ and Vegas bettings right? So where do you get your real life fighting inspirations from?
Brotha no offense but Aikido is non sense. You can do better than that. Do a sport that is battle tested in competitions like Muy Thai, BJJ etx.

I do agree that some UFC fights are scripted ( McGregor vs Cerrone, Jones vs Gane) etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brotha no offense but Aikido is non sense. You can do better than that. Do a sport that is battle tested in competitions like Muy Thai, BJJ etx.

I do agree that some UFC fights are scripted ( McGregor vs Cerrone, Jones vs Gane) etc.
Do any type of grappling sambo judo etc you will thank me.
 

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What's the likely chances you're gonna run into a UFC fighter that is honorable and wants to fight you? The truth of the matter is you train for the everyday dirt bag freaks and thugs that are out there, that are in a bad state of consciousness and wants to cause trouble. With a little martial arts knowledge like Aikido mix with BJJ and Judo you can definitely subdue them in most situations.
 

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What's the likely chances you're gonna run into a UFC fighter that is honorable and wants to fight you? The truth of the matter is you train for the everyday dirt bag freaks and thugs that are out there, that are in a bad state of consciousness and wants to cause trouble. With a little martial arts knowledge like Aikido mix with BJJ and Judo you can definitely subdue them in most situations.
Yes I agree. Make sure you mix the Aikido with grappling tho.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Akido is trained against a non resisting opponent. So as long as you get in a fight with someone who does not resist at all, you should be good.
It's ideal MA for every summer camp counselor worth his salt, who never fails to have a Milky Way bar in his pocket, thus obliterating the likelihood of anyone fighting back
 
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