tseluca
Don Juan
I am white
5' 7"
Blonde
5' 7"
Blonde
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Physical preferences
- Thread starter tseluca
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I like girls that are
5'1"-5'8"
Not muscular
Not fat
Don't really care about breast size as long as they are a b-c.
Don't care about hair color or eye color.
Pretty face
Nice ass
5'1"-5'8"
Not muscular
Not fat
Don't really care about breast size as long as they are a b-c.
Don't care about hair color or eye color.
Pretty face
Nice ass
ADifferentKindofDJ
Don Juan
lol... I've been thinking about this since my last LTR and here it is:
1. Some where around 5'5"( that's my height)
2. Blonde(what can I say??)
3. not too skinny not to fat.(well.... we all have a standard)
4. nice chest and a$$(
)
But in reality I would like these and that she:
1. Have her sh1t together
2. Have lived enough of her life that she doesn't think she's missing out on anything
3. carreer minded, so that she doesn't sit on her butt and I get bored of her. Hell she could collect trash for all I care.
4. No kids, but maybe depends on 1, 2, and 3.
Would this woman be a perfect 10?? I don't think it matters. Most likely 7-10. I think my age is showing, so get the good ones while your young because as you get older it's not all about looks.
ADKdj
1. Some where around 5'5"( that's my height)
2. Blonde(what can I say??)
3. not too skinny not to fat.(well.... we all have a standard)
4. nice chest and a$$(
)But in reality I would like these and that she:
1. Have her sh1t together
2. Have lived enough of her life that she doesn't think she's missing out on anything
3. carreer minded, so that she doesn't sit on her butt and I get bored of her. Hell she could collect trash for all I care.
4. No kids, but maybe depends on 1, 2, and 3.
Would this woman be a perfect 10?? I don't think it matters. Most likely 7-10. I think my age is showing, so get the good ones while your young because as you get older it's not all about looks.
ADKdj
Don't have really any preferences. I donm't believe all girls should be made a certain way. What looks good on one, might not look good on another. But she can't be...
-too fat
-anorexic
-saggy tits
-big ass small tits
it's really all about proportions, and how good looking her face is. I don't have a preference to hair colour, race, etc.
-too fat
-anorexic
-saggy tits
-big ass small tits
it's really all about proportions, and how good looking her face is. I don't have a preference to hair colour, race, etc.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
StringShredder
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What if that vagina was created by a surgeon, where a d1ck used to be?
:crackup:
TheInfamousCBear
Master Don Juan
Hehe...Now I see...
Silverback82
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5'0 - 5'5
100 - 120 lbs
has to have dark hair
100 - 120 lbs
has to have dark hair
Silverback82
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chris webber is like 6'9
it's also rare to see somebody prefer a race other than their own
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Re: Re: Physical preferences
Anyway I have many different preferences
Long term perference
- 5'5-5'9
-Big Ghetto booty/Bubble Butt
-Pretty/cute face
-Decent size breast
-Nice skin tone
-Nice Legs
-Good teeth (Hate fuvked up teeth)
-Can't be overweight by 30 pounds
ONS preference
-Average face
-Nice teeth
-Nice ass or bubble butt
Plus(things that can make me more attracted)
- Big ass or small ass with a nice bubble
- Big breast(DDs)
- Innocent face
- Spanish, Black, Desi
- Big lips
- Exotic Look
Negative
- Bad teeth (Hate it so much)
- Flat Ass
- Fat
- Short hair (besides mohawk like hairstyle)
- Looks like she missed a few meals (skinny)
-Sloppy/saggy ass (Got to be big but atleast shaped good)
- Acne
Only Asians i go for are the exotic looking ones with a big butt usually there mixed. (yes i have dated a puerto rican/japanese girl)
Only white girls i'm attracted too are ones with a big ass. Or the small ones with nice bubble butt. If she has no ass she must have a Nice "rack". I really go after her if she got that "fuvk me" look kinda like how paris hilton looks in some of her pics.
Thats about it
Not round here many spanish girls i know prefer black men and many of my friends prefer spanish girls.
Anyway I have many different preferences
Long term perference
- 5'5-5'9
-Big Ghetto booty/Bubble Butt
-Pretty/cute face
-Decent size breast
-Nice skin tone
-Nice Legs
-Good teeth (Hate fuvked up teeth)
-Can't be overweight by 30 pounds
ONS preference
-Average face
-Nice teeth
-Nice ass or bubble butt
Plus(things that can make me more attracted)
- Big ass or small ass with a nice bubble
- Big breast(DDs)
- Innocent face
- Spanish, Black, Desi
- Big lips
- Exotic Look
Negative
- Bad teeth (Hate it so much)
- Flat Ass
- Fat
- Short hair (besides mohawk like hairstyle)
- Looks like she missed a few meals (skinny)
-Sloppy/saggy ass (Got to be big but atleast shaped good)
- Acne
Only Asians i go for are the exotic looking ones with a big butt usually there mixed. (yes i have dated a puerto rican/japanese girl)
Only white girls i'm attracted too are ones with a big ass. Or the small ones with nice bubble butt. If she has no ass she must have a Nice "rack". I really go after her if she got that "fuvk me" look kinda like how paris hilton looks in some of her pics.
Thats about it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
tseluca
Don Juan
SilverBack
Where do you live?
Most of my female friends, who are white, are into black men, I am in Cali Now,.
****, when I lived in Johnstown PA, you rarely ever saw a white girl with a white guy.
I grew up in Southern Fl, and most girls were into the Latin men, I like them too, but here in Cali, it is mostly Mexican, not too big into that look.
I know Chris Webber is Tall, he is still good looking, just too tall for me
Where do you live?
Most of my female friends, who are white, are into black men, I am in Cali Now,.
****, when I lived in Johnstown PA, you rarely ever saw a white girl with a white guy.
I grew up in Southern Fl, and most girls were into the Latin men, I like them too, but here in Cali, it is mostly Mexican, not too big into that look.
I know Chris Webber is Tall, he is still good looking, just too tall for me
This little girl is trying to bait some of the less mature guys here.
This thread should just be deleted because it basically amounts to trolling.
She is hoping that some poor AFC white guy will get upset that she is dating outside her race.
This thread should just be deleted because it basically amounts to trolling.
She is hoping that some poor AFC white guy will get upset that she is dating outside her race.
L777
Master Don Juan
good call
tseluca
Don Juan
Kevin, get off my ****,
you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me
What you are is a DJ trying to hard. Go out in the real world and practice the things you learned on here.
Look everyone kevin is trying to pull online DJ tactics on me.
Anyone that reads this forum can see what you are doing, it is textbook DJing
you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me
What you are is a DJ trying to hard. Go out in the real world and practice the things you learned on here.
Look everyone kevin is trying to pull online DJ tactics on me.
Anyone that reads this forum can see what you are doing, it is textbook DJing
tseluca
Don Juan
This topic went 2 pages, and the only one that had a negative comment was you, so please leave us alone if you have nothing of value to add
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Alphathree
Senior Don Juan
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- Thin & petite
- Not too short
- Feminine
- For LTR, not an idiot
BONUS:
- Big eyes on a cute face
- Not too short
- Feminine
- For LTR, not an idiot
BONUS:
- Big eyes on a cute face
little girl. I could love you, but I'm sorry to say that none of what I said was even close to a neg hit. I guess you just assume that I would naturaly hit on you.
If you don't consider this the forum to be part of the real world then why are you here? Don't the cool girls that all the guys want avoid the internet? After all, they are so damn hot they don't need it.
I'm a text book DJ? awe... thanks cutie. I needed that. now I feel like a real man. What would I do with out women like you boosting my ego?
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
... wtf type of statement was that alot of people use the internet whether there cool, lame, rich, poor, ugly, hot who cares internet is what is starting to be in alot of houses. Just because a girl hot doesn't mean she have to avoid the internet. Seriously a dumbass post...
tseluca
Don Juan
Distant.....don't even argue with this guy.....he is foolish
StringShredder
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About "all the cool girls that guys want avoid the Internet".
What's probably closer to the truth is this: The cool girls that guys want are very difficult to get to using the Internet. They aren't using the Internet, in large numbers, to create profiles on social sites and wait for your e-mail! They use it to chat with their friends, shop, download music, search for information, etc.
I.e. the cool girls that guys want may avoid using the Internet in ways that would make it easy to meet them, but that's not the same thing as avoiding the Internet.
What's probably closer to the truth is this: The cool girls that guys want are very difficult to get to using the Internet. They aren't using the Internet, in large numbers, to create profiles on social sites and wait for your e-mail! They use it to chat with their friends, shop, download music, search for information, etc.
I.e. the cool girls that guys want may avoid using the Internet in ways that would make it easy to meet them, but that's not the same thing as avoiding the Internet.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.