"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Physical preferences

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I like girls that are
5'1"-5'8"
Not muscular
Not fat
Don't really care about breast size as long as they are a b-c.
Don't care about hair color or eye color.
Pretty face
Nice ass
 
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lol... I've been thinking about this since my last LTR and here it is:

1. Some where around 5'5"( that's my height)
2. Blonde(what can I say??)
3. not too skinny not to fat.(well.... we all have a standard)
4. nice chest and a$$( :) )

But in reality I would like these and that she:
1. Have her sh1t together
2. Have lived enough of her life that she doesn't think she's missing out on anything
3. carreer minded, so that she doesn't sit on her butt and I get bored of her. Hell she could collect trash for all I care.
4. No kids, but maybe depends on 1, 2, and 3.

Would this woman be a perfect 10?? I don't think it matters. Most likely 7-10. I think my age is showing, so get the good ones while your young because as you get older it's not all about looks.

ADKdj
 

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Originally posted by tseluca


So, for all you politically correct, yes every race was created equally, but that does not mean that everyone has to find all races attractive
i tend to agree. i find the stereotypical blond girl less enticing then an exotic viding brunet or redhead. and then there are Hispanic girls. they're really something.
 

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Don't have really any preferences. I donm't believe all girls should be made a certain way. What looks good on one, might not look good on another. But she can't be...

-too fat
-anorexic
-saggy tits
-big ass small tits

it's really all about proportions, and how good looking her face is. I don't have a preference to hair colour, race, etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
She absoultely MUST have a vagina.
What if that vagina was created by a surgeon, where a d1ck used to be?

:crackup:
 

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Re: Re: Physical preferences

Originally posted by Silverback82

it's also rare to see somebody prefer a race other than their own
Not round here many spanish girls i know prefer black men and many of my friends prefer spanish girls.

Anyway I have many different preferences

Long term perference
- 5'5-5'9
-Big Ghetto booty/Bubble Butt
-Pretty/cute face
-Decent size breast
-Nice skin tone
-Nice Legs
-Good teeth (Hate fuvked up teeth)
-Can't be overweight by 30 pounds

ONS preference
-Average face
-Nice teeth
-Nice ass or bubble butt

Plus(things that can make me more attracted)
- Big ass or small ass with a nice bubble
- Big breast(DDs)
- Innocent face
- Spanish, Black, Desi
- Big lips
- Exotic Look

Negative
- Bad teeth (Hate it so much)
- Flat Ass
- Fat
- Short hair (besides mohawk like hairstyle)
- Looks like she missed a few meals (skinny)
-Sloppy/saggy ass (Got to be big but atleast shaped good)
- Acne

Only Asians i go for are the exotic looking ones with a big butt usually there mixed. (yes i have dated a puerto rican/japanese girl)

Only white girls i'm attracted too are ones with a big ass. Or the small ones with nice bubble butt. If she has no ass she must have a Nice "rack". I really go after her if she got that "fuvk me" look kinda like how paris hilton looks in some of her pics.

Thats about it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SilverBack

Where do you live?


Most of my female friends, who are white, are into black men, I am in Cali Now,.

****, when I lived in Johnstown PA, you rarely ever saw a white girl with a white guy.

I grew up in Southern Fl, and most girls were into the Latin men, I like them too, but here in Cali, it is mostly Mexican, not too big into that look.

I know Chris Webber is Tall, he is still good looking, just too tall for me
 

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This little girl is trying to bait some of the less mature guys here.

This thread should just be deleted because it basically amounts to trolling.

She is hoping that some poor AFC white guy will get upset that she is dating outside her race.
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
This little girl is trying to bait some of the less mature guys here.

This thread should just be deleted because it basically amounts to trolling.

She is hoping that some poor AFC white guy will get upset that she is dating outside her race.
good call
 

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Kevin, get off my ****,

you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me


What you are is a DJ trying to hard. Go out in the real world and practice the things you learned on here.

Look everyone kevin is trying to pull online DJ tactics on me.

Anyone that reads this forum can see what you are doing, it is textbook DJing
 

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This topic went 2 pages, and the only one that had a negative comment was you, so please leave us alone if you have nothing of value to add
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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- Thin & petite
- Not too short
- Feminine
- For LTR, not an idiot

BONUS:

- Big eyes on a cute face
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
Kevin, get off my ****,

you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me


What you are is a DJ trying to hard. Go out in the real world and practice the things you learned on here.

Look everyone kevin is trying to pull online DJ tactics on me.

Anyone that reads this forum can see what you are doing, it is textbook DJing
little girl. I could love you, but I'm sorry to say that none of what I said was even close to a neg hit. I guess you just assume that I would naturaly hit on you.

If you don't consider this the forum to be part of the real world then why are you here? Don't the cool girls that all the guys want avoid the internet? After all, they are so damn hot they don't need it.

I'm a text book DJ? awe... thanks cutie. I needed that. now I feel like a real man. What would I do with out women like you boosting my ego?
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin
Don't the cool girls that all the guys want avoid the internet? After all, they are so damn hot they don't need it.
... wtf type of statement was that alot of people use the internet whether there cool, lame, rich, poor, ugly, hot who cares internet is what is starting to be in alot of houses. Just because a girl hot doesn't mean she have to avoid the internet. Seriously a dumbass post...
 

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About "all the cool girls that guys want avoid the Internet".

What's probably closer to the truth is this: The cool girls that guys want are very difficult to get to using the Internet. They aren't using the Internet, in large numbers, to create profiles on social sites and wait for your e-mail! They use it to chat with their friends, shop, download music, search for information, etc.

I.e. the cool girls that guys want may avoid using the Internet in ways that would make it easy to meet them, but that's not the same thing as avoiding the Internet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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