tseluca
Don Juan
I am white
5' 7"
Blonde
5' 7"
Blonde
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i tend to agree. i find the stereotypical blond girl less enticing then an exotic viding brunet or redhead. and then there are Hispanic girls. they're really something.Originally posted by tseluca
So, for all you politically correct, yes every race was created equally, but that does not mean that everyone has to find all races attractive
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What if that vagina was created by a surgeon, where a d1ck used to be?Originally posted by ThunderMaverick
She absoultely MUST have a vagina.
Hehe...Now I see...Originally posted by tseluca
I am white
5' 7"
Blonde
chris webber is like 6'9Originally posted by tseluca
6' -6' 3. Not too tall
Not round here many spanish girls i know prefer black men and many of my friends prefer spanish girls.Originally posted by Silverback82
it's also rare to see somebody prefer a race other than their own
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
good callOriginally posted by 00Kevin
This little girl is trying to bait some of the less mature guys here.
This thread should just be deleted because it basically amounts to trolling.
She is hoping that some poor AFC white guy will get upset that she is dating outside her race.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
little girl. I could love you, but I'm sorry to say that none of what I said was even close to a neg hit. I guess you just assume that I would naturaly hit on you.Originally posted by tseluca
Kevin, get off my ****,
you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me
What you are is a DJ trying to hard. Go out in the real world and practice the things you learned on here.
Look everyone kevin is trying to pull online DJ tactics on me.
Anyone that reads this forum can see what you are doing, it is textbook DJing
... wtf type of statement was that alot of people use the internet whether there cool, lame, rich, poor, ugly, hot who cares internet is what is starting to be in alot of houses. Just because a girl hot doesn't mean she have to avoid the internet. Seriously a dumbass post...Originally posted by 00Kevin
Don't the cool girls that all the guys want avoid the internet? After all, they are so damn hot they don't need it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.