The Duke
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Drinks coke? interesting, why so?
Kind of weird but my choice of women closely resembles my mom's look when she was in her prime.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Kind of weird but my choice of women closely resembles my mom's look when she was in her prime.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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It does sound weird, but I bet it's common, and that there are psychological reasons for it.
As for the Coke, I'm guessing it has to do with unhealthy habits. I try to keep it to a minimum, but I confess I like an occasional soda.
Women will always have standards but break them all the time.
I'd wager 90% will marry a guy who broke at least 1 of her "must have" standards.
I'd also wager for vast majority of married women, it wasn't love at first sight with her husband.
So don't sweat it when women post their standards. Besides, when did we start taking women so literally?
I'd wager 90% will marry a guy who broke at least 1 of her "must have" standards.
I'd also wager for vast majority of married women, it wasn't love at first sight with her husband.
So don't sweat it when women post their standards. Besides, when did we start taking women so literally?
zekko
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Well, that's because the men who meet their standards don't exist. Or they exist in such small numbers so as to be statistically insignificant. Guys do their compromising too.
DonJefe19
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I know why, the sugars from the coke break down in her mouth and leaves a nasty film. Bad breath, not something I would want to put my tongue either.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
CornbreadFed
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I feel like the women that have owned me the most had a nice ass, flat chested, and gave out a nerdy closeted lesbian vibe. I really never cared for big boobs.