"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.

In the 2nd year however, things changed. I started to go to her less and not attend her calls as much. Power shift slowly changed and now I have her begging.

For the last few months I have not once gone to her. Its been her full on. I have stopped initiating for the last 6 months. Now I have completed the full circle by not buying her a bday gift . Why did I do it?

Because why should I? Phuck investing in to a woman. Its the worst thing a man can do. If she isnt the mother of your children or isnt married, then just bang her. Stop the relationship nonsense. Keep her around.Let her think its a relationship but do 0 on your part to make it seem like you are in one too.

Bitches will ALWAYS break your heart. Make them chase you forever by giving 0 chits.Plow her, set her straight but dont make any worthwhile investments.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, I'm tired of doing all the work then getting games/sh!t tested, let her do it!

I agree, let them chase you... FOREVER!!!
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
So what prompted you to write this post?
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Ive just had an epiphany. Its been a whole year since her last bday and i feel so much happier and less stressed. Slowly but surely ive let go of needing to invest in her and it has automatically made me less attached.

I like her, I would probably marry her, but I would just as easily let go of her. Could never say that before.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
 
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Roober said:
Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
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When you run two businesses and drive Uber, there's no time to chase, anyway.

Stay busy, stay away...

Give her the space to chase!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poon King said:
I love it when men wake up.

Once enough men wake up.. we will be able to start changing laws that screw men in marriage, divorce, and in general.

MEN: Take back the power. Stop being faggots.
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It's refreshing!

I agree, government should keep their paws off marriage and divorce... But,they never will, because of the power, money, and control.

Marriage was legally unregulated for thousands of years. Which is why I support illegal marriages.

In this case, fvck the law.
 
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Alpheta said:
Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.
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When I read this part I just thought "oh no what a tool". Anyway I'm glad you turned it around! Unfortunately, it seems most guys (especially on fb) seem to be buying their gf unbelievably expensive bday and xmas gifts.
 
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