"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.

In the 2nd year however, things changed. I started to go to her less and not attend her calls as much. Power shift slowly changed and now I have her begging.

For the last few months I have not once gone to her. Its been her full on. I have stopped initiating for the last 6 months. Now I have completed the full circle by not buying her a bday gift . Why did I do it?

Because why should I? Phuck investing in to a woman. Its the worst thing a man can do. If she isnt the mother of your children or isnt married, then just bang her. Stop the relationship nonsense. Keep her around.Let her think its a relationship but do 0 on your part to make it seem like you are in one too.

Bitches will ALWAYS break your heart. Make them chase you forever by giving 0 chits.Plow her, set her straight but dont make any worthwhile investments.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I'm tired of doing all the work then getting games/sh!t tested, let her do it!

I agree, let them chase you... FOREVER!!!
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
So what prompted you to write this post?
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Ive just had an epiphany. Its been a whole year since her last bday and i feel so much happier and less stressed. Slowly but surely ive let go of needing to invest in her and it has automatically made me less attached.

I like her, I would probably marry her, but I would just as easily let go of her. Could never say that before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
 
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Roober said:
Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
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When you run two businesses and drive Uber, there's no time to chase, anyway.

Stay busy, stay away...

Give her the space to chase!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Poon King said:
I love it when men wake up.

Once enough men wake up.. we will be able to start changing laws that screw men in marriage, divorce, and in general.

MEN: Take back the power. Stop being faggots.
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It's refreshing!

I agree, government should keep their paws off marriage and divorce... But,they never will, because of the power, money, and control.

Marriage was legally unregulated for thousands of years. Which is why I support illegal marriages.

In this case, fvck the law.
 
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Alpheta said:
Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.
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When I read this part I just thought "oh no what a tool". Anyway I'm glad you turned it around! Unfortunately, it seems most guys (especially on fb) seem to be buying their gf unbelievably expensive bday and xmas gifts.
 
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