"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.

In the 2nd year however, things changed. I started to go to her less and not attend her calls as much. Power shift slowly changed and now I have her begging.

For the last few months I have not once gone to her. Its been her full on. I have stopped initiating for the last 6 months. Now I have completed the full circle by not buying her a bday gift . Why did I do it?

Because why should I? Phuck investing in to a woman. Its the worst thing a man can do. If she isnt the mother of your children or isnt married, then just bang her. Stop the relationship nonsense. Keep her around.Let her think its a relationship but do 0 on your part to make it seem like you are in one too.

Bitches will ALWAYS break your heart. Make them chase you forever by giving 0 chits.Plow her, set her straight but dont make any worthwhile investments.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, I'm tired of doing all the work then getting games/sh!t tested, let her do it!

I agree, let them chase you... FOREVER!!!
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
So what prompted you to write this post?
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Ive just had an epiphany. Its been a whole year since her last bday and i feel so much happier and less stressed. Slowly but surely ive let go of needing to invest in her and it has automatically made me less attached.

I like her, I would probably marry her, but I would just as easily let go of her. Could never say that before.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
 
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Roober said:
Showing her how you care is so much more important than buying gifts. Any AFC or otherwise can buy a woman a gift. Take her out and have an experience, she will remember that far more than a purse, shoes, or otherwise...

You have to always be willing to walk away, and it sounds like you have done that. With that mindset, you will be free to attract women who make you a priority, go out of their way to please you, and will do anything for you.
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When you run two businesses and drive Uber, there's no time to chase, anyway.

Stay busy, stay away...

Give her the space to chase!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poon King said:
I love it when men wake up.

Once enough men wake up.. we will be able to start changing laws that screw men in marriage, divorce, and in general.

MEN: Take back the power. Stop being faggots.
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It's refreshing!

I agree, government should keep their paws off marriage and divorce... But,they never will, because of the power, money, and control.

Marriage was legally unregulated for thousands of years. Which is why I support illegal marriages.

In this case, fvck the law.
 
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Alpheta said:
Im in a 2 year relationship. In the 1st year things were rocky. she seemed on and off. In that same year I brought her a £400 gift for her bday. I went over to her as did she. Spoke to her over the phone etc.
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When I read this part I just thought "oh no what a tool". Anyway I'm glad you turned it around! Unfortunately, it seems most guys (especially on fb) seem to be buying their gf unbelievably expensive bday and xmas gifts.
 
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