"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Photofeeler charges you to have 20 or more people rate photos for various categories.

I had a bunch of photos rated.

What is absolutely amazing is seeing how the same photo taken from two angles gets 20% variation in looks, intelligence and trustworthiness. Pictures of myself taken in 2016 range from 75% high to 25% low - amazing. My dates rates from 99% high to 42% low.

The numbers don't correspond to a 1-10 scale. They are a mathematical sorting - if you are 99% that means your photo rated higher than 99% of the people. So 51% still isn't bad as you're in the better half of photos.

Note that a photo rating for a girl tells you a LOT more about her attractiveness than a photo rating for a guy, which omits presence, height, confidence and income which mean more to women than looks. For men, think of it as pass/fail.

These huge variations underscore the need to have your profile pictures professionally reviewed to avoid having one of these slightly wrong features appear that knocks the rating down.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Even the same photo if cropped differently produces vastly different results.
 

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You need to get them rated to see it seems. It looks like I can pull in the 70 - 80 range with my photos, but some of my photos are a lot lower (as are some women I thought were hot).
 
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