"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Photo Rating Service Observations

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Photofeeler charges you to have 20 or more people rate photos for various categories.

I had a bunch of photos rated.

What is absolutely amazing is seeing how the same photo taken from two angles gets 20% variation in looks, intelligence and trustworthiness. Pictures of myself taken in 2016 range from 75% high to 25% low - amazing. My dates rates from 99% high to 42% low.

The numbers don't correspond to a 1-10 scale. They are a mathematical sorting - if you are 99% that means your photo rated higher than 99% of the people. So 51% still isn't bad as you're in the better half of photos.

Note that a photo rating for a girl tells you a LOT more about her attractiveness than a photo rating for a guy, which omits presence, height, confidence and income which mean more to women than looks. For men, think of it as pass/fail.

These huge variations underscore the need to have your profile pictures professionally reviewed to avoid having one of these slightly wrong features appear that knocks the rating down.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even the same photo if cropped differently produces vastly different results.
 

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You need to get them rated to see it seems. It looks like I can pull in the 70 - 80 range with my photos, but some of my photos are a lot lower (as are some women I thought were hot).
 
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