Have a question here. I met this woman in California via another discussion board. We have gotten to know each other fairly well. She recently gave me her phone number on a PM message on this forum. Should I just take the intiative and call her or wait till she gives me an ok time?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Phone number
- Thread starter leeman67
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you have the number that's the greenlight to call. The only rule of thumb I have is that you need to ask someone when they answer the phone if "they have a moment to talk." You can't assume that they aren't busy doing something, or running somewhere in their car, etc. Either they have a moment or they don't. If they don't, you call again later.
It's that simple.
It's that simple.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^This is kind of funny, because I did PM someone my number last night, lol.
It wasn't lee!!
It wasn't lee!!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
OR WAS IT...
lol.
lol.
logic1 said:Lee
I have to ask out of curiosity, why did she pm you on this site
Was it IQQI?
Call her when you feel its right with you. You have the opening, the ball is in your court and you can play with it as you dam well please.
No, it wasnt this site. Its someone I got to knowing a little bit and found we have alot in common. She sent me a pm last weekend while I was out of town asking me to call her last Sunday Night. Unfortunately, I never got into town till just this past Weds. I explained that on my replay to her. I may have lost out. I was hesitant mainly because I didnt want to appear desperate.