Have a question here. I met this woman in California via another discussion board. We have gotten to know each other fairly well. She recently gave me her phone number on a PM message on this forum. Should I just take the intiative and call her or wait till she gives me an ok time?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Phone number
- Thread starter leeman67
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you have the number that's the greenlight to call. The only rule of thumb I have is that you need to ask someone when they answer the phone if "they have a moment to talk." You can't assume that they aren't busy doing something, or running somewhere in their car, etc. Either they have a moment or they don't. If they don't, you call again later.
It's that simple.
It's that simple.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^This is kind of funny, because I did PM someone my number last night, lol.
It wasn't lee!!
It wasn't lee!!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
OR WAS IT...
lol.
lol.
logic1 said:Lee
I have to ask out of curiosity, why did she pm you on this site
Was it IQQI?
Call her when you feel its right with you. You have the opening, the ball is in your court and you can play with it as you dam well please.
No, it wasnt this site. Its someone I got to knowing a little bit and found we have alot in common. She sent me a pm last weekend while I was out of town asking me to call her last Sunday Night. Unfortunately, I never got into town till just this past Weds. I explained that on my replay to her. I may have lost out. I was hesitant mainly because I didnt want to appear desperate.