“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Phone Call Game?

Dam44

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If her decision to use WhatsApp was based on your suggestion, this is a good thing.
You'll better know if this is the case when you reach out to her upon your next attempt.
If she answers when you make the next attempt, I'd recommend going ahead and asking her out. Say something casual like ... we should grab coffee at _____ (insert place that is open and allows seating)
She had the app installed but not active on it. I guess so. Is there a way I can find out?

I'll definitely ask her out when next I call. No is the worst I can get.
By the way, her close male friend(mutual friend) told me she once said she wasn't interested in relationships. I'm still going for it though.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She had the app installed but not active on it. I guess so. Is there a way I can find out?

I'll definitely ask her out when next I call. No is the worst I can get.
By the way, her close male friend(mutual friend) told me she once said she wasn't interested in relationships. I'm still going for it though.
At this point, you also shouldn't focus on a relationship. The main goal should be to not come across as a "pal" but instead as a man that isn't afraid to speak his mind (ask her out).
No one here bats at a 100% success rate. However, we should strive at 100% success at risking rejection and stating our intention. Otherwise, we fail (within ourselves) because we were scared of rejection.
 

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At this point, you also shouldn't focus on a relationship. The main goal should be to not come across as a "pal" but instead as a man that isn't afraid to speak his mind (ask her out).
No one here bats at a 100% success rate. However, we should strive at 100% success at risking rejection and stating our intention. Otherwise, we fail (within ourselves) because we were scared of rejection.
This is true, thank you
 

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I created a long distance relationship around phone calls and video messaging, so I know it can be done. There was a meetup on the horizon though. But the chemistry and intent was there...Trying to manufacture that attraction is tough.

Make an appointment for a "phone date" and have a time constraint so it doesn't drag on. For me that frequently was my commute. "Oop, I'm at work, gotta sign off" It signals to her you have a busy and fulfilling life, and you are offering her a portion of it.

But get a "Socially distant" date on the books outside, with your hookup logistics handled.

"Let's grab some takeout from the taco truck and go eat in my hotel room. It's got air conditioning"

"hey I know a place on the river we can go swim, lets grab some sandwiches and beer"

"My backyard is nice and shady this summer. You can meet my dog."

Make a distinct plan to meet up before you have multiple phone calls. She will feel like she knows you that much better and be more likely to convert to a lay.
 

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I created a long distance relationship around phone calls and video messaging, so I know it can be done. There was a meetup on the horizon though. But the chemistry and intent was there...Trying to manufacture that attraction is tough.

Make an appointment for a "phone date" and have a time constraint so it doesn't drag on. For me that frequently was my commute. "Oop, I'm at work, gotta sign off" It signals to her you have a busy and fulfilling life, and you are offering her a portion of it.

But get a "Socially distant" date on the books outside, with your hookup logistics handled.

"Let's grab some takeout from the taco truck and go eat in my hotel room. It's got air conditioning"

"hey I know a place on the river we can go swim, lets grab some sandwiches and beer"

"My backyard is nice and shady this summer. You can meet my dog."

Make a distinct plan to meet up before you have multiple phone calls. She will feel like she knows you that much better and be more likely to convert to a lay.
Thank you.
About Phone Date, is it just getting to know each other on the phone or what?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So there's this girl from my college I'm interested in. But the thing is she's not active on social media... Meaning I have to resort to phone calls.

I'm just curious, is there really any 'phone call game' I should follow. I've called her once and the vibe's great. But will calling her on the phone lead to any positive results? because even if I set up a date, it's until after lockdown before that happens.

What do you guys think? Should I go on with calling her? And how do I do it best.
Good vibes?
Calling the phone shows more confidence.. most guys afraid to talk to her, this is pretty crazy
Have no idea what to say but you started well, the thing is what the connection establish between you during the call? Are you free to just send her a whatsapp massege with hey whatsup
 

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Good vibes?
Calling the phone shows more confidence.. most guys afraid to talk to her, this is pretty crazy
Have no idea what to say but you started well, the thing is what the connection establish between you during the call? Are you free to just send her a whatsapp massege with hey whatsup
Yeah, I think it was good.
Haha, I'm working on my confidence. To be honest, the connection is closer to friendly than flirty but I think there are prospects.

The time here now is 1:29am so I'll have to do that later in the day.
I love planning my texts well so if you have ideas that would be appreciated
 

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Yeah, I think it was good.
Haha, I'm working on my confidence. To be honest, the connection is closer to friendly than flirty but I think there are prospects.

The time here now is 1:29am so I'll have to do that later in the day.
I love planning my texts well so if you have ideas that would be appreciated
I'm not bro I not was in the call, it's up to you
Jeffy did some videos about phone play, with all the things already said here
 
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