"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Performance anxiety?

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Leeds_Lad_Dom

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Hey guys, wondered if you guys could help me out. Whenever I seem to be making out with my girlfriend, when we undress, I lose my erection. I mean, I'm fine in the build up ie. dry humping, handjob. But it just goes down when we're in the buff. Any guys got any experience with this? I'm thinking it's just nervousness because she's my first and no ones seen me naked before. Btw we're both virgins.

Any help would be appreciated
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Learn to chill the **** out.
Have her turn you on more.
Just extend the foreplay till you're good to go.
Ive only had this happen to me once. Only thing I could link it to was masturbating/porn.
 
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Thanks for the replys guys. I used to watch porn and masturbate every day, I haven't watched porn in around 40 days and I've cut back on masturbation to 2-3x a week. Having done a search on here I've found that for others it was mainly nerves which I think it is in my case
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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