"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Performance anxiety?

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Hey guys, wondered if you guys could help me out. Whenever I seem to be making out with my girlfriend, when we undress, I lose my erection. I mean, I'm fine in the build up ie. dry humping, handjob. But it just goes down when we're in the buff. Any guys got any experience with this? I'm thinking it's just nervousness because she's my first and no ones seen me naked before. Btw we're both virgins.

Any help would be appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Learn to chill the **** out.
Have her turn you on more.
Just extend the foreplay till you're good to go.
Ive only had this happen to me once. Only thing I could link it to was masturbating/porn.
 
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Thanks for the replys guys. I used to watch porn and masturbate every day, I haven't watched porn in around 40 days and I've cut back on masturbation to 2-3x a week. Having done a search on here I've found that for others it was mainly nerves which I think it is in my case
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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